On May 10th my father passed away at 54 years old. It is still something that I myself am still struggling with, as well as my family so that is why it has taken me so long to get something posted. He was such a great father, and I cant even begin to express how much I loved and still love him. He Had been sick for quite a while and we knew that eventually his body wouldn't be able to hold on any longer. no matter how long someone is sick, and no matter how long you think you have or have had to try to prepare yourself for a loss of a loved one, nothing can really prepare you for when they are really gone.
When one really takes for granted the little things, like just being able to hug them or hold their hand, or even just to hear their voice, you start to kick yourself a little for not realizing how special that little thing really is. For Christmas Mariah and kyle were able to put some of our old family home movies on DVD for all of us to watch. It was amazing how moved I was just to hear my dad speak and say something small like mine or my siblings name. The anticipation was killing me to see him in the video. It was nice just be able to see him in something other than a picture. It was very nice and comforting. Thanks Mariah and Kyle for that, everyone really appreciated it.
In the end as a family we all appreciated everyone's help, love and comfort with everything. It was especially nice to see our family that we normally don't get to see often and both my dads and our good friends from all over. I was shown an immense comfort and support from amazing friends.
Below are some pictures I was able to snag from my other sisters blog.
 
 Daddy

Family Picture Excluding me
 My Uncle Dan and Dad
 My Uncle Dan and Dad Dad with adopted parents Grandma and Grandpa Okelberry and my oldest sister Nakoa
Dad with adopted parents Grandma and Grandpa Okelberry and my oldest sister Nakoa Dad with his parents Grandma and Grandpa Tsinnie
 Dad with his parents Grandma and Grandpa Tsinnie He was in a play, that must be where I get the "drama queen" from
 He was in a play, that must be where I get the "drama queen" from Dad with my mom..... she still dresses like that on special occasions
 Dad with my mom..... she still dresses like that on special occasions Mariah's baby blessing
 Mariah's baby blessing His best friend Uncle Richard
 His best friend Uncle Richard Mariah and Jeran with dad
 Mariah and Jeran with dad Mom, my brother Jeran and Dad
 Mom, my brother Jeran and Dad Fishing with Jeran, he loved to fish whenever he could
 Fishing with Jeran, he loved to fish whenever he could Most of his siblings
 Most of his siblings Mariah, Jeran and Dad in the Santaquin house
 Mariah, Jeran and Dad in the Santaquin house I think this is baby me
 I think this is baby me He loved to read to my niece Jada
He loved to read to my niece Jada Mom and Dad's wedding
 Mom and Dad's wedding Mom and Dad's engagement pictures
 Mom and Dad's engagement pictures One Christmas morning
 One Christmas morning I love this family picture
 I love this family picture Jeran looks exactly like him
 Jeran looks exactly like him Baby Nakoa
 Baby Nakoa Mariah's Baptism
 Mariah's Baptism Mine and Scott's Wedding
Mine and Scott's Wedding Mariah and Kyle's Wedding
 Mariah and Kyle's WeddingJust after my dads passing we were able to make a trip to Colorado to visit our good friends Kyle and Ashley. It was a much needed vacation and after several times of them making trips to Salt Lake, it was nice to be able to see where they live and spend most of their lives. We were able to go hiking in the Rockies, which was absolutely beautiful. We hiked to 3 different lakes all of which were amazing and had incredible views on the way up as well. We were even able to see a moose at the first lake hanging out in the water.
We also get to see 2 Rockies games! Nothing like hanging with good friends and watching a baseball game during the summertime. We got to see parts of Denver and some of Fort Collins, and were able to also take a tour of the place that kyle spend most of his life now days. I wasn't able to take any pictures inside of the hospital, but some of it was a little iffy if you don't care to see animal anatomy. It was very interesting to see some of the process and training that Veterinarians go through.... a very long and difficult process.
Kyle has now passed his final test and from what it sounds like, is happy and very excited to start his new career. We just hope it's somewhat closer to Salt lake and we hope to be able to make it down to Fort Collins to make it to the graduation in May.
Mr. Moose


 Mariah, Dad and me
 Mariah, Dad and me
 At the park feeding the ducks
 At the park feeding the ducks 

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